| "Instead 
                              of genuine forgiveness, our generation has been 
                              taught the vague notion of 'tolerance'. This is, 
                              at best, a low-grade parody of forgiveness. At 
                              worst, it's a way of sweeping the real issues in 
                              human life under the carpet." -- N.T. 
                              Wright, The Lord & His 
                              Prayer 
                               
   
                              Whatever 
                                     
                                    Armchair sociologists call us 
                              the "whatever generation." It's not a technical 
                              term, but accurate. Whatever you 
                              want; whatever suits you; whatever you  
                                    think. We may 
                              disagree, but ... whatever. I may have 
                              hurt you, but ... whatever. This laid-back approach to 
                              life produces indifference and indolence. 
                              But the consequences run far deeper. 
                              Like a seeping appendix, it poisons 
                              us. "Whatever" grows 
                              out of relativism - that rampant philosophy that 
                              defies biblical moral absolutes. In its simplest 
                              form, relativism insists that what is true for you 
                              is well and good, but don't force your standards 
                              on me. As long as we act sincerely and with 
                              tolerance toward each other ... whatever. 
                                  
                              But this insipid mindset has a high 
                              cost.  
                                      
                                       
                                      
                                Only absolutes 
                                      
                                       
                                      
                                can evoke authentic absolution 
                              and genuine grace. No absolutes; no forgiveness; no 
                              grace.  
                                        
                                  We wallow in pain and 
                              shame, and our culture's only consolation is a single 
                              word: "Whatever!" It fails entirely to heal, reconcile, 
                              redeem, or restore. Instead, it exacerbates our isolation and 
                              despair. The veneer of freedom in our 
                              culture -- whereby we can do basically 
                              whatever      
                                   we like -- only enslaves 
                              us. True freedom does not mean lack of restraint. 
                              Just the 
                              opposite. Authentic freedom comes from the decision to 
                              live within godly boundaries and forgive those who violate 
                              them. We cannot dismiss or modify those standards, but 
                              grace allows the fallen to return. In 
                              contrast, "whatever" casts us adrift, without 
                              moorings, without hope.     
                              The philosophical arm-wrestle between absolute ethics 
                              and relativistic ethics has grace-based implications. 
                              The irony is obvious. Relativism 
                              begets bondage. Absolutes lead to 
                              life. God always seems distant and 
                              remote to those with no culpability. On the other 
                              hand, John Newton could write of Amazing 
                              Grace    
                                      
                                because its light shone in the darkness 
                              of his acknowledged depravity. No "whatever" for 
                              him.     
                                     Without 
                              awareness of our sin and guilt, we cannot enter salvation 
                              and grace as fully as the Father 
                              intends.   
                                Grace 
                                emerges from absolute standards, not the 
                              feeble 'whatever' philosophy of our times. 
                              The  
                                       
                               Lord's statutes do 
                              more 
                                       
                              than sustain society. His principles pave the pathway to 
                              grace and life for each of 
                              us.  
                                       
                                      
                                No more "whatevers" ... 
                              please. In 
                              HOPE 
                              - David |